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The man now has no sense of urgency.
You make marriage sound like you’re trapping a man in a hurry before he changes his mind. But will you really be any better off if you rush into something because it’s so “urgent?” Maybe marriage is a serious enough commitment that it shouldn’t be entered into with a sense of urgency, but rather with a sense of slow, deep, abiding certainty.
He can see you everyday, have sex with you whenever he wants, never has to miss you, and of course he gets whatever other wifely things you have to offer like cooking, cleaning, etc. Think about it. Once you move in with a guy, you are doing everything a wife does without the legal or symbolic benefits of him actually being your husband.
So, in your mind, “wifely duties” include:
Having sex whenever your man wants, rather than when you both want it.
Being around all the time so your man doesn’t ever have to miss you, rather than going out and enjoying your own life independently because you like who you are outside of the relationship.
Cook, clean, etc. because men can’t possibly be counted upon to do their own fair share of the household chores.
I would encourage you to think seriously about the gendered assumptions you are making here and the message they send to your readers.
